What I mean is that I like them right where they are…I know she’s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we’re together it’s nice, but there’s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more “official”.
It’s not your job to change or fix her Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.
And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.6. For your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad.
Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday.
SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back.
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