The strong personality of many female officers and her existence in a cop's world adds complications.
"You're going with this woman you find attractive and who's fun to be with.
If someone looks at you sideways, they get defensive. They know what people are capable of, and they won’t take/let you take any chances in jeopardizing the safety of someone they love.
All that driving in a cruiser and rushing to emergencies makes them think they’re a NASCAR driver, and it carries over in their civilian driving habits.
Imagine hearing rumors of a cop being shot at and immediately assuming the worst, and there’s nothing that can be done to calm this kind of anxiety. Only if you want to date one of the bravest and kindest people in the world.